sunflower
It’s been a month of weeping and fear.
(Don’t worry, friends, he’s not dying this week.
Death has been reminding us it will arrive
sooner or later, that’s all.) And I am making
a bargain, betting that if I feel all of it now,
the pain won’t settle in my body and spew out
later, sideways, against the people I love.
Funny that this is the dress I have to show for this
impossible time, now crossed, completed, so
it must have been possible after all?
In the nights I wake and wonder how I will go on.
In the studio, days, I thought I was doing well to
put fabric on the table, print anything at all, go through
the motions of normal. But look, the sunflower
that was in my garden is now on my sleeve.
How did something this bright come through me
in this dark time? Life insists on itself. Later today
we will buy groceries and argue over the right
kind of salt. Energy field full of buzzy bees.
So here we are, angry, defeated, still alive.